If I had made any real progress, should I not be sensible of it?
I have been reading over the early part of this journal, and when Icame to the conversation I had with Mrs.Cabot, in which I made a list of my wants, I was astonished that I could ever have had such contemptible ones.Let me think what I really and truly most want now.
First of all, then, if God should speak to me at this moment and offer to give just one thing, and that alone, I should say without hesitation, Love to Thee, O my Master!
Next to that, if I could have one thing more, I would choose to be a thoroughly unselfish, devoted wife.Down in my secret heart I know there lurks another wish, which I am ashamed of.It is that in some way or other, some right way, I could be delivered from Martha and her father.I shall never be any better while they are here to tempt me!
FEBRUARY 1.-Ernest spoke to-day of one of his patients, a Mrs.
Campbell, who is a great sufferer, but whom he describes as the happiest, most cheerful person he ever met.He rarely speaks of his patients.Indeed, he rarely speaks of anything.I felt strangely attracted by what he said of her, and asked so many questions that at last he proposed to take me to see her.I caught at the idea very eagerly, and have just come home from the visit greatly moved and touched.She is confined to her bed, and is quite helpless, and at times her sufferings are terrible.She received me with a sweet smile, however, and led me on to talk more of myself than I ought to have done.I wish Ernest had not left me alone with her, so that Ishould have had the restraint of his presence.
FEB.14.-I am so fascinated with Mrs.Campbell that I cannot help going to see her again and again.She seems to me like one whose conflict and dismay are all over, and who looks on other human beings with an almost divine love and pity.To look at life as she does, to feel as she does, to have such a personal love to Christ as she has, I would willingly go through every trial and sorrow.When I told her so, she smiled, a little sadly.
"Much as you envy me," she said, "my faith is not yet so strong that I do not shudder at the thought of a young enthusiastic girl like you, going through all I have done in order to learn a few ****** lessons which God was willing to teach me sooner and without the use of a rod, if I had been ready for them.""But you are so happy now," I said.
"Yes, I am happy," she replied, "and such happiness is worth all it costs.If my flesh shudders at the remembrance of what I have endured, my faith sustains God through the whole.But tell me a little more about yourself, my dear.I should so love to give you a helping hand, if I might.""You know," I began, "dear Mrs.Campbell, that there are some trials that cannot do us any good.They only call out all there is in us that is unlovely and severe.""I don't know of any such trials," she replied.
"Suppose you had to live with people who were perfectly uncongenial;who misunderstood you, and who were always getting into your way as stumbling-blocks?""If I were living with them and they made me unhappy, I would ask God to relieve me of this trial if He thought it best.If He did not think it best, I would then try to find out the reason.He might have two reasons.One would be the good they might do me.The other the good I might do them.""But in the case I was supposing, neither party can be of the least use to the other.""You forget perhaps the indirect good one may in by living with uncongenial, tempting persons.First such people do good by the very self-denial and self-control their mere presence demands.Then, their ****** one's home less home-like and perfect than it would be in their absence, may help to render our real home in heaven more attractive.""But suppose one cannot exercise self-control, and is always flying out and flaring up ?" I objected.
